Hello all! I want to start by saying this is mostly a review but there are some questions at the end for any one who is willing to help/offer advice!
Fun 4 two! Wow how fucking cool! So we went for the first night on Friday showed up just past 9 and where absolutely amazed at how many people where already waiting in line, super cold now so was happy the line was moving pretty quickly! The place is actually really interesting and runs like a well tuned clock. Definitely a very quick intro to the place and you can tell the staff probably say the same things many times a night. The place is definitely a maze! I read that but I don't think i understood it until I saw it!
So you check in, pay, they give you a let to a locker (different colors for different areas) then you go up and since it was a Friday you change right away into lingerie! There are some nooks of your looking for a little more privacy but otherwise it's pretty much a free for all and no one cares/looks. Then once your changed you can head (through one of the play areas) down to the bar! The vibe is super cool and it is absolutely body positivity heaven. Men and women of all shapes and sizes and no judgemental looks or side eyes. Honestly it's a dream.come true for me ! Hubby and I took it easy and had some drinks danced a bit and after a few hours started to do some wandering. If you want to walk into and action packed club you need to come towards 11 or even 12. We loved the build up honestly.
The space is great because you can stay down dance and drink and just enjoy the ambience, or you can get upstairs and wander around the 2 play areas (don't forget the loft on top!) Hubby and i just kind of sucked and fucked in spaces we found/liked, we really enjoyed the loft because it was alot of calm and quiet fucking, and moaning. We did also find our selves wandering back to the group rooms and those where always a great place to pause and look around in awe and hype each other up for another round.
Saturday the crowd was definitely more hot and heavy, the rooms filled up super fast and we managed to land an incredible spot next to 2 (or 3) latin/Spanish couples who where putting on an incredible show. At a certain point we where stuck in the corner next to them and we both just kind of sat back and enjoyed the show!
Friday crowd was super mixed with plenty of people our age (34f 35m) as well as an older crowd Saturday surprisingly was in general an older crowd! Unfortunately we are on limit time so on both days we had to leave before 1am which is definitely a bummer
In the time we we there both nights we only chatted with 2 couples! We are relatively attractive people, and open and relaxed... we saw alot of people in groups, obviously friends going out together, and people on their own, some seemed open and friendly and others a bit more closed off. The couples we spoke to we approached 1 and 1 approached us. But I made a point to look around and smile make eye contact etc but it seems like alot of people are very into their own groups and not interested?
So here are my questions! We are going to Fata on the 4th and will be staying as long as we want, should we expect the same and maybe we need to be more 'aggressive' in meeting people? Or is there a secret to how to br more inviting ? Are the groups a normal thing is clubs and maybe we should try to pre arrange to meet people there?
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