I donāt get it. If we lose interest in someone I will come and tell them outright vs leaving them wondering what the deal is.
Find the whole concept of ghosting pretty childish and disrespectful. Seems pretty prevalent in the LS. Wish people would grow a back bone and just start speaking their mind.
I donāt see how ghosting is ānicerā than saying āSorry, but we arenāt a match. Good luckā.
I am not going to lose sleep over it lol. Just pointing out that it is disrespectful to other people. Maybe I just care about others too much.
I mean I donāt think anyone has to say why. A simple āSorry, but we arenāt a match. Good luck!ā seems respectful and gets the point an across.
I mean if you actually say you arenāt interested it isnāt ghosting in that case. I am talking about convos that are seemingly going well then out of no where ghosted.
Nah I am talking about a convo that was going on for weeks not just a casual flirt message.
Just block at that point. Tell them you arenāt a match and block if they continue to message. That isnāt ghosting in that case.
Thank you for being a decent person.
That is unfortunate. Not going to let this type of thing change who I am.
Just say it then block ? Yeah some people might freak out. They might also freak out if they are ghosted?
Yeah that is ghosting. Ideally you could be more upfront about expectations say that you want to keep small talk to a minimum until you can meet in person?
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Then just block them. At least you were forward in communication that says more about them vs you.