I’m talking about people who agree to meet up, confirm their intentions, time, and location, and then never come.

I understand, even if I think it’s unethical, that some people build up fantasies they never intend to complete, and waste others time by collecting their pictures and exchanging messages about a meet-up they know will only be in their imagination. What’s the point of carrying it through so far? To the point where you expect them to walk through the door and wondering where they are? Are they at home jerking off at the appointed time, imagining you checking the time and ordering a second drink? Is wasting other people’s time a kink?

We decided to add another single guy to our MMF list. He seemed eager, and was still texting the day before the initial meeting, being very friendly and discussing a variety of topics. Then he didn’t show up. We’ve had this happen with guys and couples over the years. The worst was one “couple” who told us they were enroute while we were waiting.