My FWB and I, both 26, have been taking about getting into swinging. We have know each other since elementary school and we were never bf/gf. We each have had relationships in the past, but they never worked out. We have always hung out together for years and eventually, three years ago, became FWB.

Each of us our curious and would like to spice up our bedroom activities.

Is the swinger community open to FWB couples or more towards committed couples?

How to we introduce ourselves? Friends? FWB? Pretend to be married?

Is condom usage mandatory or optional? She has an IUD and hates condoms, so not sure how that would go with other guys.