Hi everyone,

My wife and I have been married for over ten years and we're in our early 40s. We have a happy sexual relationship, though like many couples with young children, we sometimes feel we could do more but compromise due to exhaustion.

We frequently spend time with another married couple who are coworkers of my wife's and have children of similar ages. They recently proposed the idea of having a closed swinger event with us, which we're not opposed to.

My main concern is that they don't seem to have as strong a sexual relationship as we do, and they're still working towards meeting their needs. My wife has become more sexually interested since our friends brought up the idea because it's a fantasy of hers. They have all committed to being respectful and keeping things confidential.

I'm curious if any of you have had a closed event with your inner circle of friends as a fun, pleasurable experience, and whether it was a worthwhile event?

Thanks in advance for your insights.

Tommy B.