So we’ve (32m32f) had a lot of couples message us on our local swinger party page. We’ve been told we’re attractive so I don’t think that’s the reason our conversations die out. We kinda start off by talking to other couples like we’re just friends. We talk about hobbies interests etc. we haven’t really even gotten sexual. A lot of the times the conversation is driven by me my wife and the other husband. Rarely does the wife say much, which in turn makes my wife not want to talk to the couple anymore. It feels like we’re either not doing it right or maybe the husband of the other couple is pushing his wife to do this stuff. We’re also not full swap which it seems a lot of people thumb there nose up at. We’re mainly looking for other Bisexual women to play with my wife while the husbands have sex with their own wives.