Ever since weāve been in the community, weāve discovered how kissing can be so powerful to build and maintain a healthy level of passion while swinging. It was a little awkward when we both kissed someone else for the first time, but since we were having sex with them anyway, it wasnāt a particularly hard barrier to get over. Personally, there is something about kissing another woman in front of my wife, or seeing her kiss another husband, that makes me rock hard (helps a lot if I fear having a softness issue any time). And we also try and ācross kissā when possible ā kissing my wife when I am doing it with the other lady, or she with the other dude. Itās a massive turn on for both of us.
We are wondering what othersā views about the importance of kissing is.
Kissing is awesome! Anyone with a no kissing rule is a pass for us.
Cross kissing is our FAVVV, itās so dirty and hot šš„µ
Weāre on the kissing camp. Itās a very natural thing and having no kissing being a boundary to us throws off the flow. We tend to turn down non kissers.
Probably 75% of the non kissing couples the husband has had trouble rising to the occasion. Even for men, arousal isnāt always a light switch. Kissing helps ease into it all.
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Iād say kissing makes everything better. I need that progression from kissing to groping to clothes off fun. I donāt even like to see nude pics ahead of time because especially the first time is just so hot treating it all like a surprise.