My wife and I went to a house party, with about 50 ish people. About an hour into the party, my co-worker and her husband showed up. I was already naked in the pool with my wife, and we chatted up a bit before they got into the pool. I was beyond nervous, and it was awkward.

Eventually, they got into the pool, and she went topless. We chatted up a bit more while in the pool, but the whole time, I was uncomfortable as I was naked and her topless. She could obviously tell I was looking at her bare breasts, and quite honestly, I felt like it was disrespectful to her and felt bad. I got the sense that she did not mind me looking.

Once they got out of the pool and went inside, not sure if to play or not, my wife and I got out of the pool, got dressed, and left. We told the host we had something come up at home and had to leave.

About two hours later, my co-worker sent me a text wondering why we left? She wanted to hang out more with my wife and I. I just said, "Sorry, but something came up (not true)."

So, we most likely will be in the office tomorrow. Should we talk about this? How to handle it? Etc? I have no intentions of doing anything with her, and I don't want to make it uncomfortable at work.

I kinda feel bad and also the fact I lied. My wife is basically calling me an a**hole over the situation by overreacting and probably caused embarrassment to her.

Has anyone else had this situation?