Amsterdam and Paris Club advice

I am a 35 year old single female planning to visit a club while on vacation. Some of the things I’m interested in exploring are: full experience FFM or FFFMM hookup, passionate kissing and touching and maybe some fingering, sucking and oral with another female or couple, being sensually touched and licked everywhere then fucked by multiple men or even just one if multiple is not possible, getting out of my comfort zone and wearing sexy naughty lingerie if it’s the norm in clubs, watching while masturbating to orgasm (not sure if this is acceptable or considered creepy in a club). I open to being watched by others during any of these sexual experiences or experiencing them in private. Would I have better luck at Sameplace or Club Paradise in Amsterdam to experience any of these desires? Those places were chosen for location and restricted time although I’ve seen mixed reviews and not much info for both for single female experience. I haven’t researched Paris clubs much yet so I’m open to suggestions and info about experiences and have more time there. Are toys allowed to be brought in like vibrators or dildos to incorporate into play or masturbation? What was your experience as a single female or experiences you’ve had with a single female at a club in Amsterdam or Paris (or anywhere) as a couple or single male please! Do the single men get turned off if you want to be pleasured and have your body worshiped but don’t want to give blowjobs? I am more open to doing blowjobs with a couple as a part of a FFM hookup. Do I need to approach people/couples first to let them know I’m single or will they likely approach me as a single woman? I hope to get to experience all of my desires although it may be wishful thinking. I am nervous but excited to start sexually exploring and experiencing my first club. Any reviews, spicy experience stories, feedback and advice is accepted and welcomed. I will be in Amsterdam on a Friday night. Thank you!