I have tried swinging a long time int he past woth am ex. I agreed to ENM with my partner from the start and we started swinging a few years later. He had done polyamory and threesomes, but not much swinging.

We just....don't struggle.

We don't struggle to find solo women for threesomes. We now have a few regular threesome partners who wish we had more time for them. We had to end things with one lady due to lack of time.

We meet lovely, kind, honest and fun couples.

Sure, we've encountered a few weirdos amd limp dicks. We move in fast and don't dwell in it so it never feels like a big deal. We pull the plug fast and without remorse or second guessing.

We started on apps and now people almost exclusively via private parties that friends host or referrals. The most challenging part is the scheduling and making time with busy careers.

I know some people struggle. But I thought it would be nice to hear a boring and happy success story. It's just not always that hard. Even though it seems that way in this sub.