As relative newbies in the LS, we have only had a few same-room swap experiences at the club. Two couples we swung a few times with invited us to join them for a 3-couple getaway last night. They’re much more experienced, and were very kind to guide my wife and me gently into different-room swap. We were nervously excited to try this. We booked an AirBnB an hour north of the city for this.

Without going into much details, the night went more or less like this. Each woman was in a room, and we guys took our turns to rotate between rooms with the other two wives (we initially wanted to put in a twist where the guys don’t know who their wife is with at a given time, but that turned out to have needed more than 6 people). As usual, we agreed on our boundaries, as couples and as a group, and stuck to a planned schedule as much as we could to avoid overlaps, etc.

The major thing both my wife and I felt was the hottest was the element of mystery (as I mentioned here in anticipation) — I knew my wife was getting very dirty with another man, and I had no idea what they were doing. Similarly, the dude in the next room could only guess what his wife was up to with me. More importantly, inside the room, you only focus on one person (and they on you); there was no pressure to “compete” with anyone else, or having to divide your attention, or worry about someone being left out. That came with its own enhanced pleasure.

Also, wife and I felt it really great to connect with each other after everything was over and I went into her room. I mean, it was just insanely erotic to see her lying on the bed, tired but looking so very upbeat. We talked about how everything felt, what we exactly did with the other folks, etc. We are both curious to know how your first experiences were, and how it felt doing different-room for the first time.

I am really thankful to my wife for being a partner on this journey, and the LS friends for so graciously letting us experience and enjoy these aspects of our sexual side.