Hello Everyone.

I'm single 38M and had been looking for swinger parties to join. As this was first time for me, I was going through reviews for different swinger club and reaching out to them that I'm single and can join it.

Yesterday(Thanksgiving eve), finally, I went to temptation nyc to check out as they allows single male.

the place looks very decent and clean and in reception and a lady and caretaker were present. I mentioned I am first time (and first time such club too) here looking for safe place for such activities.

Hence, it was pre thanksgiving eve, there were no many people. When I entered I observer 1 one man and me.

I checkout place and arrangement how things looks in such club as it was all new to me and the place nicely maintained with cleanness and hygiene and there were TVs playing porn on it.

I went to bar place and had some water and chit chat the bartender about the place and asking when would be more people come to place.

After waiting an hour or so (like 12:30 or 1 am), I saw two couple entering and a single girl at bar location first and then went to upper floor for action and I followed them in few mins and sat on couch observering them.
One couple started making in room and single lady also there in one bed to watch them closely and a another man who is already masturbating there (I did not like that guy). I was watching from little distance the act of couple as there was curtains (transparent).

Another couple, seating on couch and were watching the porn on TV and trying to get intimate.

the first couple, get to another room and started fucking and single lady followed them and joined the action. I was getting more exited and but nervous how to approach them and indulge in act.

I could not hold myself and went to close the room and started watching the act for few mins until they said me to back but the other guy keep masturbating there by standing.

So there was 3some and couple and a single lady and it had been going on and I was seating at couch with lot excitement but nervous as I do not know how to approach or join.. After some time, I left the place.

Need tips how to approach and start conversation in such club and join the activity without hesitation.

I am decent guy working in corporate and has etiquette and shyness.