We are a somewhat experienced couple, but not very active. We have trouble just jumping into bed with couples we have just met and don't have much of a connection with. And I guess you could say we are pretty picky. Well, we met a couple we like. And they like us. But they are a 4 hour drive away. They came to see us once and spent the night. We had dinner. We all had a good time, but we didn't hook up. It just wasn't what we wanted to do that first meeting. It was part of a vetting process. Our whole goal was to find a like minded couple to go on vacation with. And I think they are the right couple. We already have the plane tickets (hawaii), the rental car, the 2 bedroom house rented. What I'm here looking for, is advise, I guess. Has anyone else done this before, where they have stayed with another swinger couple for a week. Im not really worried that it's going to be bad, I'm just thinking of ways that could make it better. Any other couples that like to have more of a connection with someone before all getting naked? I think it will be more fun if we all become friends and trust each other a bit.

What are your favorite ice breaker games to play with noob couples to loosen every body up? I'm sure alcohol will help with some of us, but I don't drink, lol. I was thinking we can come up with a list of kinky acts that we all go down the list and put a check mark next to the ones we want to try, then any of those acts with 4 checks gets written on a piece of paper and put into a hat to be drawn at random.