Hey guys 30/29 mf from the Canadian prairies.

We've been in the LS for about a year now and we have slept with around 10 people since starting. Unfortunately, about a month ago, one of our play partners messages saying she had tested positive for hsv2.

We both tested. I came back negative. My wife came back positive.

We disclosed this to some of our partners and the majority response from "experienced" swingers was essentially "don't worry about it, everyone has it in the LS"

This really surprised me given that nobody we had previously hooked up with disclosed an HSV2 condition.

I'm curious: - how common is hsv2 in the ls really? - if it's so common, why is disclosure so rare? - how will this limit our options going forward?

If you take the time to reply to this thank you so much!