How do you guys find what you are looking for in Ferlife if there are no filtering options to sort based on what you are looking for? We are in a small community with just about 2500 members in Fet and even that is a task when it comes to clicking on profiles, figuring out who is a swinger, or who might be a swinger but listed themselves as individual who is married. How the heck do people in the lager areas use this site when there are hundreds of thousands of users/konksters there? Am I missing something when it comes to this website, or do I need to go profile by profile and spam people with messages to figure out if they are a couple, looking for couples? Or, do I just put your profile on park and wait for somebody to contact us. WTH Fetlife? Thanks