Hey all! Me (27F) and my fiance (30m) have been in the lifestyle for 3 years now. We have experience but because of us moving to a different state, we've put the LS on hold until now.

There's a popular club in phoenix we want to try but we keep dancing around the idea of it. I'm just nervous in general but my fiance is a little timid because he's cubby. Though in my eyes he's so sexy and attractive, he's worried him being there might deter others. I myself am heavy set too but have made it to a healthier weight.

Any advice for a couple looking to go to a club for the first time? Also any other thicker swingers that have faced this problem before when going to a club? Any tips or feedback would be appreciated! We're excited to try out the experience!