Just want to get an idea from the group if other cpls in their 50’s struggle to find playmates?
Almost seems like many of the cpls where we live seem to have given up on keeping fit. We find often one or both sides let themselves go making it harder to find a 4 way connection. Neither of us at this point in the game feel we should settle. It’s to the point where we feel like packing it in.
No issues finding athletic single guys but ideally we would both like a partner.
What do other cpls of similar age generally do or advance from any age group?
Our thought is the younger groups have more options and we should stay in our lane.
Perhaps it’s the locale of where you live…as for us, we are in our mid-50’s as well and consider ourselves in great shape. We are frequently told we look much younger. We have also been in the LS for many years (from our late 20’s) and kept mindful to live healthy and true to our motto that ‘age is only a number’ and ‘beauty is skin deep’. We are not everyone’s cup of tea, and that is okay. In our LS profile, we list seeking HWP couples. And when we meet a couple where there is great chemistry, the time shared can be beyond words. We encourage you to not pack it in, rather stay open and enjoy the beauty of meeting others with whom in your vanilla world, your paths may never have crossed. Whether you chose to swim in your lane or cross over to another, we wish you the best!
Makes sense. Learned recently that we fall into the “Xennial” range that somewhat bridges the gap. Specifically to this reply though.. I’m referring to early-mid 50 somethings.
I’ll also say this. Your generation is the one throwing the best parties. It’s RARE to find 30-somethings hosting gatherings etc in our experience.
Very fit Early 40’s couple here. We always joke that we’re catnip to sexy Gen-X ers in the LS. We don’t live in a major metro, so most often we have to travel a bit to connect with fit & attractive 50 somethings though. We’ve built a pretty decent little network. It also gives us a chance to have mini “vacations” so hasn’t been too a big deal. NEVER SETTLE!
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Hey we don’t discriminate. We enjoy getting naked with awesome people of all ages 🤣 50-somethings just tend to have more time (often empty nesters) and resources (established careers with more flexible schedules).. and they seem to be the ones always reaching out on SLS/SDC 🤷♂️