Yes.. make friends out of swingers, not swingers out of friends. Get that.

But for those that have, and there has been plenty of posts stating they have, what was the the catalyst that went from "maybe they are interested" to "yes, they are interested and proceeded further"?

For us, we have these friends that we always thought they may be interested in us. We just played it up to innocent flirting and fun. One day, while we were at their house watching a movie and drinking, I went into the bathroom and heard the other wife in the kitchen say to her husband, "You think he (meaning me) is as well endowed as you?"

I told my wife this on our drive home. The next time we met them, we came out and bluntly asked them. Turns out they were interested in us for almost three years!

They did leave small settle hints here and there, but like I said we thought they were just being flirty. They told us, no, those were real hints and they just stayed persistent about it.

For you.. What was said? A comment? What was done, like something physical?

What was the one thing that finally pushed it over?