I have had several conversations with women over the last few months in a swingerâs environment, both in person and online, and this topic arose. It piqued my curiosity as to what the LS community at large has to say on it.
Iâm not referring to pimping in the traditional sense of selling a womanâs sexual favors for money. I am referring to men who use their wives to attract and entice people so that they can play with another female, and men who expect their female partner to make it happen for them even if it means the female sometimes taking one for the team or at the very least lowering her standards and playing with someone they can accept but wouldnât be particularly interested in if her partner wasnât desperate to play with the other female.
Absolutely, we would rather fuck in front of a crowd just the two of us than have a bad experience.
I the female, have a much smaller range of guys Iâm interested in. My hubs loves all kinds of women. So, our rule is âno one takes one for the teamâ means most times Iâm not going to.
The LS is full of beautiful women and men that have let themselves go. Weâve played with couples that the wife in discussion will âfall on the grenadeâ and in those discussions theyâve had several bad experiences. Us on the other hand live by no experiences are better than bad ones. If itâs not a hell yes for both, itâs a hell no for both.
My wife, for the last 3 years. Havenât played much in 1.5 since I started working out of state. She enjoys the adoration of a spit roast. But Iâm usually doing the heavy lifting.
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