I (M28) have been struggling on dating women, especially when it comes to the talking stage. Most instances me and a woman would text instantly until months later she would leave me on delivered. The last woman tho, she was a coworker that I’ve connected to. We listen to the same music (EDM), have a struggling childhood in poverty, and I’ve seen how she works (me and her are managers at a fast food chain), so she’s not stuck up like most women (or so it seems)

Now she’s hasn’t even responded my texts and hasn’t even approved my friend request on IG after she left the company. I figured I’m done with dating and would like to learn how to become the swinging lifestyle

I would prefer a male mentor but female mentors are more than welcome, I figured if she could be self centered and free spirited, then I would like to go down that route. I figured if I keep imagining that one day I would like to marry and start a family, it’ll just torture myself.

My only experience is that I have lost my virginity recently to a sex worker in September. Although it was a nice way to knock out my virginity out of the way, I felt like it was the easy way out. I would rather focus on people that I would like to attract to and maybe get lucky.

If any one would like to recommend me a mentor or any advice on where to start, that would be great, thank you!