I’m travelling for work in a couple weeks, My wife is open to me playing solo while gone. Her idea (my bday will be during the trip) I’m not sold on it, but would be a way to pass a night. preferably with a couple or in a LS club. We have done solo but not never days apart and we agree one on one solo is on the table but LS or couples would be the preference. I’m not going to invest a lot of effort, so tinder is somewhat out.

In terms of LS I do not want to come across like the sneaky guy pulling one over on my wife. I also refuse to pretend that i’m not married. that would be the easy route but is disrespectful of my marriage.

so what’s an easy way to verify that she is open to me playing solo and have a hall pass? Pic with a permission slip? Phone call or facetime is reasonable but that will be time depending on when I’m out and when she is in bed. would text history with my wife be plausible?

we have been on the other side of this but guys always fail to even attempt to verify wife is on board.