We went to a small get together with two other couples recently (which went amazingly well, so please don't take this as complaining 😁). As the fun was getting started, my wife and I were making out and one of the other ladies joked with us, "hey you two! You can do that at home!"

I know she was just giving us shit in a flirty, playful way and no one complained when she nudged my wife out of the way to "cut-in" but this was the first time anyone had ever called us out like that.

Our experiences have always been a mix of playing with each other and whomever we're with. It had literally never occurred to me to not play with her. Again, we all laughed and no one was offended. We all knew she was half joking but that also means she was half serious and it got me thinking.

Does anyone else have this philosophy, but legit? No judgement, just me trying to learn the lifestyle (we've been in it less than a year). We don't really "hot wife" but I could see that thought process there. Kinda like, "we didn't all come here to fuck our own spouses". Curious how others would have taken this and if others share the sentiment.