My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for several years. We have accounts on various LS apps and sites. We’ve played with a few couples. It’s been a fun experience. That process allows us to vet a couple and to build a connection with them before we decide to meet up.

With that said, we both fantasize of finding another couple randomly in the wild like at a bar or something, chatting with them and playing with them that night. For a variety of reasons, I think that’s unlikely to happen. It seems like our best bet for something remotely close would be to go to a LS resort or club. On one occasion, we did hit it off with another couple who were randomly seated next to us at a bar after a concert. I’m pretty confident they were swingers. They were flirtatious but we were weren’t sure how to raise the issue and it fizzled out.

Has anyone randomly stumbled upon swingers who you have played with? I’d love to hear the stories and thoughts on how to find them.