I’m going to try and keep this as short as possible, summarizing history of the topic in our relationship.

We are a mid 30s couple. I’m 6ft 200 lbs, physically fit, intelligent. She’s 5 ft 1, 125ish lbs, outgoing, intelligent, kind, gorgeous.

We considered swinging back in 2018, created profile on kasidie and feeld. Matched, sexted, set up a date for full swap…couple flaked. Tried again with another couple…flaked. She became discouraged, we backed off and she soured on the idea. Later she asked what kind of porn I’m into..I showed her Reddit hotwife, group play subs. She was into the idea, thought it was hot but we ended up getting pregnant in 2019 and then again in early 2023. Lots of hot sex, innuendos and joking about it between them but we didn’t act on it.

Used her phone recently and noticed that she is watching hotwife, cuckold, Big Dick, orgy, swinger content which is something she did before the last pregnancy but now it’s WAY more hotwife/group play focused. I’ve also noticed she has been more open to talk about it without immediately shooting down the idea.

Anyone have any advice…real advice. Similar experiences or Swinger/hotwife Podcasts or resources that we could go through together? Things to discuss, ideas for baby steps.

Ps I’ve left a lot of detail out to keep this relatively short.