I (F27) have considered taking part in the swinging culture for a while but never did for various reasons. I had a horrible car that wouldn't get me anywhere. I thought I was playing into bisexuality stereotypes but I think I'd be into swinging even if I was hetero or homosexual. I had a weird relationship with the unicorn label as well. Also the idea of running into people I know scared me. I already get judgement from people in my life over mundane stuff.
I figured though, if I'm gonna try to fulfill some of my deepest kinkiest fantasies, this might be my best bet. Especially since I don't have a place of my own.
Luckily there's a couple options in my local area. I just wanna narrow down the best ones for my first time.
I want to fulfill my fantasy of group sex (FFF, MMF, MFF, 4somes, orgies, etc.). I want to hook up with older couples. I want to fulfill my found fuck family fantasy. I want to offer myself to multiple people. I want to be a sexual attention whore.
I think I'm finally ready to be a free use unicorn. I know I'd be a hit.
Clubs are AMAZING- and as a single woman the world would be your oyster.
We get where you are coming from too - we are huge experience seekers. We never want to regret NOT doing something we desire
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We recommend a couple things as a single woman too.
When you go- introduce yourself to a couple of the staff and let them know you are a woman playing solo. Especially if theres a bar - ask them to sort of keep an eye out for you.
If you can - go to the club site or local subreddit etc and try to get to know a couple people who will be there. Let them show you around and help you integrate. A lot of clubs are very click-ish