My s/o (34m) and I (30f) have a very active sex life. We have been together around 2 years and have never had any issues with intimacy, but lately he has made a very unique request. He has asked for me to sleep with a stranger. He says he just wants me to do it one time and then he wants to ātake me backā.
Iāve expressed that I donāt mind working to help fulfill his fantasy but that I do not know how to find someone to sleep with. By nature I am a very shy person who isnāt comfortable approaching someone for sex in the context of it just being a casual, one time thing. He says it would ruin the fantasy if he were to help me pick out the person. I guess I am just at a loss and looking for advice on what to do.
I want him to feel fulfilled because he does do whatever it takes to help achieve my fantasies and reciprocation is so important.
Single guys are literally a dime a dozen. Or more. Take an ad on doublelist and youāll have scores.
Be ready to deal with fakes flakes and fuckbois - like with anything else.
Have a safety plan for god sake.
And make damn sure you guys are secure and you both wants this. Relationships have crashed for less
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