My wife and I (28M, 24F, 5yrs) two weeks ago took mushrooms and out of the blue we both discovered that we were interested in opening our sex life to more people, so we made a dating app profile. Tbh, I didn't really think much would come of it but we are swimming in responses from college girls (we live in a college town) and I'm kind of blown away. Like seriously, Im shocked theres this much interest from single women. (Im pretty sure we are meant to be like this. We worked with an older swinger couple a while ago and one day at a work meeting, they were giving us a grin like they knew something we didnt).

This was two weeks ago, and this girl is supposed to come over Friday and I'm kind of nervous. Like, when Im fantasizing about sex with my wife, I have pictured her with other people and its turned me on hard. We have an AMAZING relationship, actual fucking soul mates, and Im kind of worried that something might happen to it when we go through with it. I used to be a jealous person until I met my wife but had been in several group sex things before and no ill feelings came from those. And seeing her dance with other half naked women over Halloween genuinely made me happy to see her happy and Ive never felt like that with other people Ive been with.

Tbh, our sex life has already been amazing, sex swings, pegging, nature sex, the works. Definetly going to have a long convo tomorrow with her before hand to clarify any rules and feelings. She's like, the least jealous person Ive ever met so Im not really worried about her getting that way afterwards, and I dont think I will either but honestly any advice on what to talk about and how to be less nervous and if anyone else has felt this way on the eve of becoming swingers would be great. Sorry the post is kind of scattered post, nervous/excited/anxious writing.