Ive noticed several posts mentioning getting ghosted, and OP is usually a bit confused as to why, which made me think of encounters that we didn't go back for repeats on.

We always start off letting people know we are looking for ongoing situations, the goal is never a one night stand. But if we (well more specifically me, i don't think my hubby has ever straight up refused an encore) didn't have fun, i don't plan on going back again. But I never tell people that. It seems kinda mean to say "nope, that was no fun, I'd rather never see you again."

We really dont have space for platonic friends in the lifestyle, so we usually just fade away with no feedback given. I dont think i would normally have much to say though, on my end it just seems like the chemistry is right or wrong, and if it wasnt great, I dont even know where to start for explaining why it was off.

When things are good, I'm going to rave about everything i liked, and probably a lot. I probably go overboard on the praise thing, but I have a rough time finding hookups I like, so i really want to let them know what they did right for me.

Have you ever given feedback on what was wrong before? Has anyone ever been too excited about your hookup after, or do you like getting accolades?