We went to a house party last night, and pretty much everyone knew each other, except for this one new couple. They were in their 50s, the husband was 6’3” and in amazing shape, the wife looked like a model, cute bob haircut, perfect body, LBD.

All the men were surrounding her all evening. The guy talked to each woman at the party, but was kinda in your face, pretty aggressive, which can be scary coming from a guy who has a football player physique.

She played all night, he got nothing.

Afterwards, I asked Jon why he didn’t go after her. “Eh, I had pre-arranged some playtime, and once you commit to play, you don’t change your plans in midstream. That would have been very disrespectful. Why didn’t you go for the buff guy?”. Me: “Too aggressive. Very attractive man, but he ruined it by his attitude”.

So what do you all do when you meet the attractive new couple: do you try your luck or do you go with who you know? And have you ever dealt some very aggressive guys?