We [50 F&M] are casual friends with another [50 F&M] couple (the Smiths). We’ve been trying to get together to play for a while, but life has had its way with us all.
We asked the Smiths recently if they wanted to get together for a date, and we would all throw out some dates that work for us, and come up with one we agree to meet.
They responded, not throwing out availability, but asking if we were open to inviting another couple, the Jones, whom we are close with, and the Smiths are interested in.
We’re hoping to respond to the Smiths soon, but wanted to ask the question to others. How would you feel if this happened to you? How would you respond?
We try to not hang out with same couple too much, we like swinging because we like variety and meeting new people. We’ve played with multiple couples a bunch of times, sometimes with many months in between. We’ve also played multiple times with the same couple over a few weeks. We thought it got a bit stale that way, it wasn’t as exciting or new or whatever
Also it’s really fun playing with two or three other couples together, especially when you know all the couples well and know they will be a good match.
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