Asking a question I know has been asked before, but I’m not finding much recent info.

We’re a M26 straight and F28 bisexual(female preference) couple who are going to be in Portland from Canada for this first time this coming weekend, and are looking for the best swingers party on Thurs, Fri, or Sat. We’re not newbies, attractive (I think lol) and up for any sort of group play.

Privata seems like the main option, but the no-single men 3rd floor is closed on Thursday, and with the membership fees the weekend prices become pretty expensive. I’ve also heard that it’s a nightclub first, sex club second, swingers club last, and I’m wondering if on such a busy weekend it’ll be pretty difficult to find any sort of play with anyone other than each other? We don’t mind a club night, and love to dance, but that’s not the point of us going to a swingers club, lol.

TVR sounds fun if it’s a bit more swap focused and smaller, but if it’s just obviously way worse, that’s not the play, of course.

Happy to pay, dress up, not dress up, etc, we’re up for whatever! just looking to meet fun similar age folks and have a fun sexy night, and would love some locals opinions on the best way to do that!

(Also, maybe see some of y’all next weekend 🤩🤩)

TIA :)