As the title says, I'm a newbie to the lifestyle. It intrigues me very much to be with a MF couple. I would love to learn and be of use to both the Male and Female.

I am Bi male, with very little experience with a woman, i am in a great relationship but he does not want to play. He's given me permission to explore and if it comes to it may join in with a couple (or watch me solo with a female).

How do I go about integrating into this new scene? From what I read, I have to be the outlier and accommodate the couples I'm seeking to play with - but I'm nervous to be with a couple that isn't both Bi , since my experience with females is little. Should I even be concerned that I may not be up to par to satisfy her, should I care that he doesn't want me to service him? I think I prefer older people in general (45 ) so it seems hard as a 31 year old to integrate.

Overall I'm just nervous and new , looking for advice and mentorship. I'm in Burlington, Ontario if any couples want to take a newbie under their wing - to be a "boy toy" I'd be up to explore!