Exclusivity is the real question right? What SHOULD be exclusive to only you and your partner?

Everyone has a different line with this. We always think of it is how many (non sexual) things we share with others. I enjoy going to dinner with other friends, watching sports with other friends, bowling with other friends, etc etc. there’s no exclusivity with my wife in those activities.

As far as more intimate things…. Some couples consider texting a member of the opposite sex over the line. Some people think of it as something more physical. Some people get angry if their partner so much as says another person is hot/attractive. Everyone has their line.

For us, we keep our love and our specific connection exclusive.

But we love fun exciting sex and the excitement of the chase (and being chased, who doesn’t love that!). Of meeting new people. We like watching each other with others. And so this lifestyle allows us to have that while being secure in our love and what we have in our lives.

We’ve gotten the chance to meet super cool people we otherwise wouldn’t have. To have hot sex with beautiful people and experience different wants/needs/desires we otherwise never would have.

All within the confines have having zero worries about falling in love with those people, leaving each other for them, or having them cross the line that way.

It’s beautiful and fun