Being shy in the lifestyle is never a good disposition. Most of the time, if you ask, good things will happen. If they decline your offer, that's fine, you just move on to the next person.

Here are a few examples from this weekend at a birthday party.

• "you want to help me get into the hot tub?"... => hot sex ensued
• "I think your birthday cake would taste better on your boobies" => 6 guys had fun licking cake off her boobs, two of them got even luckier.
• "I am horny. Touch me" => multiple orgasms on the patio.
• "You have an accent. Where is it from?" ... "from the country where all men have large dicks and know how to use it. Wanna check it out?" => hot sex ensued.
• "How old are you?"... "52".... "OMG, you look 15 years younger. Can I kiss you?" => lesbian scene on the patio.

The lifestyle is not complicated. Everyone at the party is in the mood. You just need to be bold and go for it.

What's your go to questions / opening lines?