We M42 and F38 have become close couple friends (NY) with a couple we met at a club a few months back. We have been having trouble clicking with couples and found like we met the perfect situation. Recently the male half has been getting more aggressive and not following our rules which has been a turnoff for the whole situation. Obviously our main goal is for everyone to have open communication and be safe. We have let him know our boundaries but are at the point when we want out. Is it possible to keep in communication with the female that my wife really likes in some kind of capacity or is this a team situation. I know it’s a long shot but wondering if anyone else had this kind of situation where you were able to make a foursome and now threesome?