Not the experience or the people, but how often do you leave an encounter saying "holy shit that person freaking rocked my world!"?

I understand that the shared experience of group play is what most swingers are looking for, but this question is more directed towards curiosity of how brilliant of hookups you are finding in the lifestyle.

Do you consider them to be more considerate and excited to meet your needs and talented in the bedroom?

Do you leave feeling like "im glad I got to share that fun interesting experience with my spouse, but I wish they had a bit more skills"

have you had some encounters where you were just like "WTF was that? Nope, never again with them!"

I'm super curious on what percent of the time people hookup with others in the lifestyle and leave feeling like the sex in itself (without focusing on the shared experience or exhibitionist/voyeurism) was amazing.