So we got contacted by a nice looking couple. Exchanged a few texted and actually thought we might hit it off.
After a time they were up front and said she was cheating on her partner with this guy. The guy and her are looking to swing with other couples.
My gut tells me stay clear, but wondered if I was being too critical. Thoughts? I’m sure others have come across this. Thx
I’d definitely recommend steering clear of this situation. Cheating brings a lot of emotional baggage, and while the cheating partner may seem cool with things, you don’t know what their actual partner is capable of once they find out. The mind of someone who’s been betrayed works quickly, and the fallout can be unpredictable. You don’t want to risk being dragged into the drama, having your information exposed, or being treated like part of the betrayal. Also, do you trust a “cheater”…?
It’s just not worth the potential fallout: emotionally, legally, or socially. Protect yourself, avoid the mess, and stick with couples who are on the same page about transparency and trust. There are plenty of drama-free connections to be made without this kind of risk.
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