So there's one at every party. While it takes all types to make a party, there's always the few really far outliers. The drunk super sexy girl who no one ever touches because she is always too drunk to consent. The 20 something who is sitting in a hot tubs talking about how she always has BV. The drunk octogenarian lady who has zero respect for boundaries or "the guy" who is SO SO SO cringe.
You know the one. The guy who will walk into a room and suddenly yell loudly in a child like voice "boobies" at the first sign of undress. Or the one who makes such an awkward show of himself checking out a female that she is not only no longer the show because now everyone is wanting to positively die of embarrassment but now she's also deeply uncomfortable.
Or the guy who comes out of a play room, impersonates Baby Hewy by putting his finger up to his lip, gets doe eyes and very loudly proclaims, "I've been a baaaad boy."
It will kill a mood in a room in no time. Everyone covers up and tries to avoid the creepy dude.
Do you:
Tell the hosts?
Make an obvious gagging sound?
Look at him in horror?
Walk by and tell him to take 20% off of the top?
Live and let live?
Look him in the eye and say, "she's the show right now, not you."
What is the appropriate yet effective response to this guy? What steps can you take?
Or the husband of a couple who decided to be Al Michaels and a five a play by play of all the action in the room. He was there to watch his wife play. He was sidelined for some type of injury but instead just watching and enjoying the show he couldn't keep his mouth shut.
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