My wife and I are happily full swap and very much enjoy couples. However, I love to watch her and she is thrilled to be watched. Our best experiences are when we play with a couples that also enjoy watching and being watched. What my wife really wants is the solo wife experience were she gets 2-4 men not counting me..just the center of attention thing. The problem is that we’ve had no luck with single men ..it’s just not easy for us..weird 11th hour excuses of flake out and disappear after months of chat. We are going to Desire next month and we have a little experience under our belts..I feel like I can just ask and try to put something together for her..happens all the time, right? But what’s the deal and etiquette regarding men in a couple? Any thoughts? I’m certainly not against playing with wives but maybe they can come later in the night? Anyone with experience in this?