Let’s just say that you and your wife have a unique situation. She likes to fuck other guys you like to watch her but also you start to get a little curious about what it’s like to fuck other women. So you take to SDC you create an entire profile. Your profile is dedicated to the pursuit of mostly men to fuck your wife while you watch you then see a beautiful woman on another profile and you’re super interested in her. Then you reach out you send a message you say I find you very attractive. You’re a great looking couple. Would love to get to know you better. the couple reads through your profile and politely says y’all are pretty, but I don’t think that we’re a match because you’re mostly just looking for single dudes or soft swap. You then write a compelling message back saying I haven’t updated my profile but you’re actually looking for full swap. We’re a full swap couple that’s what we’re in for. That’s what we want, so the couple that you responded back to will give you a chance. You take to a messaging app your wife, barely messages back, but things are kind of good. The other couple is flirty. They are a full swap couple they are looking to go on a date. They are looking to full swap like they said in the messages that led you to telegram. Finally, you decide to go on a date, but what you don’t decide to do is to tell the other couple that your wife is possessive and jealous and doesn’t want you to have sex with other women but you’re desire to enter the swinging world has taken over your mind and you think that she’ll just go along with it once she sees how happy you are with this other couple. The issue is that’s not what happens you go on an awkward date where your wife is hanging onto you not really engaging and standoffish to the other couple. You are engaging the other wife, she’s a swinger, she’s putting out the vibe, but your too busy to notice your wife and the other guy are not clicking, mostly because she is trying to keep your attention and distract you from the other couple. You don’t notice or care, and you keep plowing ahead. The other dude is becoming more quiet but still polite…. The swingers suggest a dance club, hoping to loosen stuff up a little, but really the other dude just wants to dance with his own wife and enjoy the rest of the night since they spent $100 on a Lyft and your lack of communication with your wife is making a really uncomfortable situation for your wife and the other dude. Maybe you don’t notice but at this point, you don’t care, walking into the club you grab the swinger wife and kiss her, behind the swinger husbands back… fuck you don’t swing… talk to your wife before you pull two ppl into a situation, don’t try to change ppl minds with lies and misinformation, hoping in the moment your wife will change her mind. We are all actual people and lies, misinformation, deception, are messed up and unacceptable. We are open, if we are asked a question we are honest and open, especially when it has any effect on the other couple. Dude talk to your wife, but honestly, don’t put another couple in this dynamic again.

Edit: wrong flare, I’m not a single male, just the male in a couple.