Hey y'all! We are heckin new to the lifestyle, but very excited about. We have dabbled here and there but are really ready to go for it.

We were invited to a hotel party this weekend with a few other couples. We are a little intimidated but also excited for the experience and to hopefully learn a thing or two from more experienced couples!

So my main question is...what the hell do we (30 M/F) wear? Normal clothes with cute bra and panties? Trench coat with leather body suit under (mostly kidding)?! Help a girl out!

I know everyone there are just normal people trying to get a little freaky, but as an anxious girlie I never know what to wear when I go somewhere for the first time. Let me know what you think! Thanks!