So my (27f) and my husband (28m) have actively been discussing getting into the lifestyle. This has been a conversation outside of the bedroom too because I think talking boundaries and fantasies outside of a sexual setting is important.

I’ve always thought of myself as bisexual, but I believe I may actually be Pansexual, but I recognize my husband is straight. We’re on fetlife and looking to meet people but still anxious about starting.

How did you get into the “swing” of things? We have a few lifestyle clubs but unsure if we should bite the bullet. Did you use any other apps or things?

We’ve talked about Ffm, swapping, and maybe mmf (but ideally after I’m pregnant).