I love my fiancé and we’re planning on getting married next October, and I’m very excited about that. I found a woman who loves me dearly and I can’t see myself being happy with anyone else. I haven’t been with anyone else since we first started dating 7 years, and have been very faithful ever since. However, I am a very sexual man and I aim to please my fiancé in every way possible. I use toys on her, I fulfill whatever desire that she has and I make sure she’s satisfied, but lately I’ve been thinking about exploring other ways to satisfy her and myself and have come across the “lifestyle.” Being from NYC I have the advantage of knowing there’s a lot of people who may be open to the same thing, but how do I open up this conversation with my fiancé without seeming like I want to be with other women romantically, or even hurting her feelings? I convinced her to join me on “the temptation cruise” so perhaps there’s progress, but I’m unsure what to say or do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.