I love meeting new and interesting people. It seems like swinging attracts the type of people who want to enjoy life and extract a lot of fun doing it.

I love forming connections with people. It could be before play while chatting and getting to know them. It could be sharing a moment while playing that lingers in the memory. I could be after, laying around naked, and just enjoying that time.

I love the excitement of playing with someone new. Learning how to push their buttons and what their body feels like. How they kiss. Seeing them react to me and us. Giving pleasure and feeling them pull me in and ask for more.

I love the crazy situations we end up in. Dressed up in slutty revealing clothes at a party? No problems! Knocking on a door in the dark with the streetlight dimly reminding us of where we have found ourselves? Great! Out at a bar flirting publicly with someone/s? Awesome!

I love watching my wife. She is so incredibly sexy and it blows my mind. I’ve got more happy and sexy memories of her doing all sorts of things that pop up now and again. Seeing her express and enjoy her sexuality is one of my greatest joys.

I love the colour that it brings to our lives. Life is full of responsibility and boredom and tediousness. Work and family and bureaucracy and paperwork and whatnot. It is a crazy side of us that I get to wheel out and provides balance. For me, I can’t have one without the other, and that goes both ways. We can’t party every day - that would end up a bit destructive. But we can’t be productive and responsible robots every day.