Wife and I are fairly new to LS. 2 months maybe. Weâve had a couple mfmâs, been to a club a couple times. Sheâs gotten lots of play. My luck hasnât fared so well. Finally we were meeting a couple for a full swap. Things get going great! But when her and I move to the king size to join my wife and him on the king size bed, I lose all connection to my dick.
Now, Iâve occasionally had issues with ED, but have meds for it, and it hadnât prevented me from enjoying the MFMâs. She was so gracious and amazing, and I didnât let it keep me from pleasing her in other ways. But I canât say Iâm not humiliated. I know I was nervous. My legs were shaking even. But I didnât think I was that nervous! Now I have this thing hanging over me. Ever never been more ashamed. Itâs been in my head ever since. Thankfully theyâre still talking to us, and want to meet againâŠhow do I move past that though? Now Iâm questioning every future play.
Happens to me in group play...cant stay hard.enough to get condom onand then I lose it totally. Happened multiple times even with ED meds. Went to trimix..game changer....we'll worth it. Needle seems crazy at first but once you do it once its .no big deal.and the payoff if phenomenal...
We were at a party and a line of 3 men waited to get inside my wife.
The second guy got in but couldnât stay hard. My wife had been squirting and was wet as fuck. He said, âIâll get hard if I take the condom off.â Uh, no, I told him.
The guy behind him asked me âwho the fuck are you?â UhâŠ.her fucking husband. He got inside her also couldnât stay hard.
I say this to say the mood gets a huge vote in staying hard. I was rock hard just watching men with my wife đ„Žđ„”
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The scene/mood was rightâŠ.and my wife wanted the dick.