I’m planning a trip to Desire Pearl next year with my lifestyle-curious wife. She’s said she’s definitely not ready for swapping (even soft swapping) but I just found out she’s actually much more open to parallel play than I thought.

I think she’s just really not comfortable with either of us penetrating or being penetrated by someone else, or kissing. She is comfortable being touched by another woman to some extent, but doesn’t consider herself bi.

Obviously, I know the general idea in parallel play is for both couples to have sex with their own partner in close proximity to the other couple, but what else typically goes on in a session? What do parallel play enthusiasts consider a really great parallel play session?