Ok, you have all been uber-helpful in my last post regarding the reality of some swinger posts vs. me getting sucked into a porn vortex. I was a bit naive and couldn't determine what was real. I'm SO much wiser now - practically an elder of the community with so much to offer! JK Still so much to learn.

Like this: What are the expectations with pictures???

I have already botched it with a lovely couple because I hesitated to share any pics. But I am starting to sense that it is really important to share photos? A way to verify people?

But isn't it easy to just send any random pic from any random place? Sure, this is me from my Sears catalogue shoot....It doesn't really verify anything, does it? Maybe I need to be a bit more trusting?

Also, I REALLY cannot describe how much I don't care to see your dick pics. Like, could it show any less effort? They just make me cringe so hard it is an immediate turn off So, it seems, that most pics exchanged are gonna push things in the wrong direction right off the bat anyway...

I'm all turned around about proper photograph etiquette in the LS. Help!