Hey everybody. Male half to a couple here, and looking for dating advice. I am a full time parent (two young kids) and my wife travels a bunch for work. We have amazing communication about everything we do (both Virgos) and also play separately. We have been in the LS for almost a decade.

My wife has had so many great experiences with guys and couples, with many joining us back in the bedroom. Understandably, she’s the driving force in our LS relationship. She has sought out women for me, and I always join when she finds a guy/couple

I’m home with the kids, and running into dead ends and catfish. We don’t have any power dynamic, we are just openly loving people.

The stigma of guys cheating on their wives, or hiding things in their relationship is so apparent in our area of coastal VA, and I cannot figure out how to crack the code so couples and women trust that I’m not going against “my vows” haha.

We are on sites like Reddit and SLS (an old aff is in there too), but haven’t figured out how to debunk the stereotypes.