My wife and I have been happily married for 14 years. We have been exploring the LS the last 2. We live in NYC, are mildly introverted, and having a hell of a time finding couples we jive with. We tried feeld majestic for over a year, went on 3 dates with different couples, and that’s it.
We’ve tried SLS but it seems to be mainly other men pretending to be in relationships just looking to get their dick wet for 2 minutes. I guess I’m coming here for maybe a little insight on other apps that aren’t full of bugs and fakes.
We are a pretty simple couple who like coffee, wine, and weed, so not sure why we keep getting snagged up on finding other couples. Maybe our standards are too high? Maybe we have too many tattoos? We aren’t the hottest couple in the world with tight ripped bodies but we think we are an attractive couple. Any tips greatly appreciated 🥰
Many have said this, but I'll reiterate that going to clubs or events are the best ways to meet actual people. It's much less pressure as well, which was a huge factor in my fiance feeling more comfortable to cut loose. Dates are still fun, but the vast majority of our friends have come from meeting at events.
P.S.- Big event coming up in Scranton at the end of the month. Message us if interested in details and potentially meeting up with us and the rest of our group.
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