Ok, so we are VERY new to this and learning as we go. I have already made some mistakes and it is humbling to keep learning and growing and possibly feel rejected. An area I continue to work on in my life!
One of our biggest concerns has been about our age and bodies. Sure, some 'normal' insecurities but also some unrealistic expectations??
We have been looking at swingersgw and I was comparing myself to the posts in similar sibreddits.....But are those mostly 'porn' and/or ads to get people to OF and such?
No wonder I feel so crappy next to professional models and content creators!!
It seems more realistic that there are lots of people just like US that are living their life and not posting wild sexy pics online?
Quite the contrary, we look for people who are less ego driven and would rather have normal pictures as opposed to pictures that are clearly done up in one way or the other (those boudoir pics are vastly misleading). Fact is most people can be “super hot” with the right camera angles and such- but it also tells you a bit more about the people in what and how they want to portray themselves. The same with couples with some variant of “we are super hot and sexy” in their profile (since that is very subjective).
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That’s pretty awesome 🤩